GLASTONBURY, CONNECTICUT · FAMILY LAW + FAMILY-VIOLENCE DEFENSE

Custody for Unmarried Parents in Connecticut

Custody, parenting time, and child support do not depend on marriage. Unmarried parents have the same access to court orders and the same standard applies.

How it works

Under C.G.S. §46b-61, the Superior Court can make orders about custody, visitation, and support for the children of unmarried parents. The test is the same best-interest standard that governs any custody case, under C.G.S. §46b-56.

There is no maternal preference, and the fact that parents never married carries no weight of its own.

The step that comes first

Parentage may need to be established before the court can enter orders. If parentage is already established — by an acknowledgment signed at the hospital, by a court adjudication, or by a statutory presumption — you can proceed directly.

If it is not, that is the first task.

The practical difference

What distinguishes these cases is rarely the law. It is that there is often no existing framework — no prior order, sometimes no history of shared decision-making, and occasionally no clear record of the relationship between the child and one parent.

That makes the parenting plan more important rather than less, because there is nothing else to fall back on.

Living together is not marriage

Connecticut does not recognize common-law marriage. Long cohabitation gives an unmarried partner no claim to property division or alimony — but it changes nothing about rights and obligations toward children.

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